I was trying to get a good picture of Baby G today that I could print off and give to his Great Grandma. She has a hallway lined with pictures of her family members, and a special section with all of her great-grandbabies. But I tell you, this baby does not want to cooperate! He is just still really fussy... and every picture I took has a scowl on his face.
Blue was a fussy baby. It was so hard to be cried at all day, everyday, for the first three months of his life. And then one day he just sort of snapped out of it. I know that will happen with this baby too... but darn it I was really hoping that he would be a calmer baby. Oh well, we will get through it!
And look at Blue now... he has the best smile around, always lights up a room. I think my favorite sound in the world is that boy's joyful laugh. He is such a happy kid for the most part, and sweet as can be. So maybe fussy babies make happy kids? I'm hoping so!
We've tried all sorts of things to help the fussiness around here. Swaddling, mylicon, gripe water, white noise, etc, etc. The only things that seem to sort of work is going outside and giving him a warm bath. He LOVES it outside and he LOVES baths. But I can't have him in the tub all day, and it's getting colder around these parts so hopefully something else will work if this carries on. I've thought about picking up some Colic Calm, but man that is pricy for fancy gripe water. I've also been tempted to take him to the chiropractor to see if that helps at all but that makes me a little nervous. We are just going to wait this one out I think...
I'm thankful for all the baby whisperers that have come into my life lately though. Even if it's just someone to hold him for 10 minutes to try and calm him down. Just to see someone else holding him and working with him makes me feel better. I have some dear friends that have stopped by and held my boy so that I can get something done or just take a break when he's being really fussy. Bless them!
Fussy babies are hard! But you are right they seem to snap out of it. I wouldn't worry about taking him to the chiro I too my their when he was just a few weeks. The adjustment is super soft and slight she just held him in her arms and lightly touched places on his back. He slept the whole time. I don't know if it helped but it didn't hurt anything!
ReplyDeleteThanks for your comment Heather! It's good to know they are soft. My husband said "no way" but I'm might be willing to give it a try.
DeleteHave you tried oils? That is what helped J with her fever. I'm up for anything when I feel I've tried everything. Maybe some lavender would calm him down or another one. Good luck! He is adorable and chunky.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad that they helped Jane!! I have tried several oils with him. I've done lavender and that sort of worked... I couldn't really tell though. I've also used fennel and rosemary which I've heard are supposed to help with colic. But I can't say that I've noticed a big difference... I wish they were the magic key though I tell you what!
DeleteIf it's any consolation, C was a super fussy baby too. It was really really hard. Outside was his favorite place and I would try to go on a walk everyday with him just to have a break from fussing. Sometimes I wonder if it's hard for these tall man spirits to be stuffed into a tiny baby body. ;). Thankfully, C snapped out of it and has been one of the most pleasant boy. My girls have been calm babies though once V hit about 2 she turned into a major drama machine. I heard in the hospital with V that a calm baby makes a tough toddler and a fussy baby makes a calm one. Either way, every child had their challenge times where you wonder if you can take it. You're doing a great job and I need to learn from your example and go to bed before eleven more often.
ReplyDeleteI've wondered that too, if being stuck in this body that doesn't move or do anything as a newborn, is super frustrating for some of these spirits. As soon as Blue could move around he was much happier. Who knows. It will pass though! Thanks for the encouragement. BTW... it is 11:46 and I am not in bed yet! I need to practice what I preach a little better!
DeleteOh fussy babies make getting through the day (and night!) difficult. I hope he calms down soon for you. Definitely go to the chiro- you can always ask for an assessment and then decide if you want an adjustment done or not. What about a wrap or baby carrier? Would he be happier in one of those?
ReplyDeleteI haven't even sent my congratulations yet, YEA on the new baby! My last two were fussier and in swing on "launch mode" offered me a shower, a break at the computer at times. ps we moved by you. We are renting in Fruit Heights and are building a home across the street from Freedom Hills Park in Centerville. Still love all the trees on Main, awesome street!
ReplyDeleteHe sure is precious though! I hope he snaps out of it for you soon too!
ReplyDeleteI swear by colic calm! It helped a lot with Emeri. I ordered mine on Amazon.
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